WARM RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR LITTLE ONE
A close, loving relationship with your little one is critically important for his or her well being and development. Most of us take this for granted and feel our love comes naturally, but do we know why it is so important?
That close loving relationship between mum or dad and their little one is called ‘bonding’ or ‘attachment’ and scientific research shows that not only is it critical for baby’s physical and emotional health, it is also critical for his or her brain development. The first few years of a child’s life set the path for her development and success. The early years are the time when the brain is developing at lightning speed, so it provides a unique window of opportunity to give your child the best possible start in life and ensure he has the best possible opportunity for social, emotional, cognitive (or intellectual) and physical development.
So what happens when that loving caring relationship with baby is not present? Research shows that babies who do not experience close, loving relationships often fail to develop normally. They often fail to develop a strong sense of self, the ability to form good relationships throughout life AND they struggle to learn. Every experience your young child has, dictates how his or her brain is wired. Each stimulus – each kiss, each word, each smile, each story, each sunset – promotes the development of brain cells or neurons and their connections.
So what does this mean for parents and caregivers? The good news is that many of the things you do naturally out of your love for your precious little ones is all the ordinary magic needed. It’s your LOVE, PLAY, TALK – the way you cuddle, smile and talk to your baby when you feed her; the way you quickly respond to your baby crying; the way you chat and tell your baby what you’re doing when you change his nappy or dress her; and all the things you point out to him and tell him about when you go for a walk together. A happy baby has the best chance of growing up a happy, well-adjusted adult.
LOVE, PLAY TALK
Learn more about what you can do to change your child’s future by listening weekly to LOVE, PLAY TALK, the radio programme on Nkomazi FM aired EVERY Thursday from 11 to 11.30am and brought to you by Ilifa Labantwana and RCL FOODS. Each week Nkomazi FM hosts a guest speaker to deal with a different topic to support you, the parent of a young child, give your child the best start in life. The LOVE, PLAY, TALK radio programme is part of the RCL FOODS sponsored LEAVE NO YOUNG CHILD BEHIND early childhood development initiative in Nkomazi Wards 16 and 19 that aims to ensure every young child in these wards has access to improved quality of essential services so that they get the very best start in life. And you, the parent, have a critically important role to play!
EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT SPECIALIST